Comments on: Word Vomit http://deylansmama.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/word-vomit/ Just another WordPress.com weblog Mon, 30 Nov 2009 04:07:52 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: ♥ Monique http://deylansmama.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/word-vomit/#comment-45 ♥ Monique Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:36:32 +0000 http://deylansmama.wordpress.com/?p=92#comment-45 A few days ago, knowing exactly how you feel, I would have suggested acknowledging the gesture and not progressing with anything that could potentially hurt yourself, Jess and D. But right now, I suggest feeling her out and see if she wants to have a relationship with D, and then cautiously proceeding from there with her, if that's something D. wants to have too. She did take the time to finally show up, D. will always know that he has tons of people to love him - if she is going to be genuinely there for him, one more person is definitely not a negative! Trust your instincts, what are YOU feeling, aside from the shock. When you think of having her around more often does it make you feel uncomfortable, or happy - when you saw her with D. how did you feel, how did he seem? You'll definitely find the best solution for all of you. :) *love* A few days ago, knowing exactly how you feel, I would have suggested acknowledging the gesture and not progressing with anything that could potentially hurt yourself, Jess and D.

But right now, I suggest feeling her out and see if she wants to have a relationship with D, and then cautiously proceeding from there with her, if that’s something D. wants to have too.

She did take the time to finally show up, D. will always know that he has tons of people to love him – if she is going to be genuinely there for him, one more person is definitely not a negative!

Trust your instincts, what are YOU feeling, aside from the shock. When you think of having her around more often does it make you feel uncomfortable, or happy – when you saw her with D. how did you feel, how did he seem? You’ll definitely find the best solution for all of you. :) *love*

]]> By: Cinda http://deylansmama.wordpress.com/2009/06/09/word-vomit/#comment-44 Cinda Tue, 09 Jun 2009 20:59:24 +0000 http://deylansmama.wordpress.com/?p=92#comment-44 I wish I could have been there. I remember what your relationship with your mother was like and although I agree that Children should have grandparents in thier lives biological grandparents are not necessary. Biology isnt always where its at. The people who show us how much we are worth arent necesarily the ones who the ones who gave birth. I know you will choose what is best for D. I wish I could have been there. I remember what your relationship with your mother was like and although I agree that Children should have grandparents in thier lives biological grandparents are not necessary. Biology isnt always where its at. The people who show us how much we are worth arent necesarily the ones who the ones who gave birth. I know you will choose what is best for D.

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